Children don’t magically hit an age where they all of a sudden no longer need their parents. As a matter of fact, as adults there are many times when we may still go to our parents for advice or guidance. Oftentimes parents will feel that they are done raising their children once they hit the teenage years. These are very important years and our teenagers need us so very much during this very big transition in their lives.
Teenagers are typically seeking independence from parents, however their family needs to be a source of emotional support for them. Connecting with your children is very important. While they may seem to drown you out and not have as much time for you as they used to, you must remind them that you love them and you want to spend time with them. While you may not be able to do the things you used to with your teenage child, there are still many things you can do together to bond with your child.
Make sure your teenager knows that you understand them. Let him/her know that you are sympathetic to the changes he/she is going through and that you are always available to talk about anything and everything. They may not talk to you, however knowing that you are willing to listen is a big deal. Teenagers need to feel loved just like babies. You might think they have outgrown that “stage” in their life, however they long for your love and attention.
Pay attention to your child, show them love and support and let them know that you are there for them whenever they need you. For if a child does not have his parents behind him/her…who does he/she have?
For the greatest of these is Love…
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